talking about my other msg board
note: i'm not referring to EDMW.
at first i can't think anything meaningful to blog bout.. but suddenly i read something in my other forum (again reminder, the other forum is not edmw) that i decided to just talk about..
i regularly visit a particular message board, which caters to people who have lost their loved ones.. when i first found it during the intense moment of pain, well i decided to just visit it.. since it was at the top of the list.. until now i noe i had not made the wrong choice.. my life had been severely affected by the understanding and loving people there...
the only way you can find that board is perhaps by CSI-ing, coz i dun tink i will tell where is that board..
the board is set up by a person who was a certified grief counselor for people to ask for help after having lost their loved ones.. i didn't really planned to use that board at first.. since that time i really needed quick comfort.. but still i decided to just type a simple thread stating i had just lost a girl i loved 1 week ago and need help from everyone.. i didnt really expect what help they could give.. and i'm still abit scared how the people there is like.. but within 1 hour the admin responded and replied lovingly an advice.. soon, other people offered their love and comfort to my thread..
i didn't expected a comfort out of typed replies, since ultimately, no matter what i do, the pain is still there.. however one couldn't expect that simple messages could really help that person emotionally.. when i found some progress to help grieving i would post happily what i had just discovered on that board, and everyone appreciated it..
slowly i began to lessen my frequency on that site.. coz sometimes the topics were abit generic and it became abit boring.. but suddenly just now, as i read through a thread i suddenly get reminded of the importance and dearness of that site to me..
another person just lost their loved one and asked for help
as i read through of the recalling, at first i simply read.. but suddenly i remembered i used to type a message like that too and it was extremely important, and extremely personal, and i began to feel the pain the person had just begun experiencing.. and i simply typed an invitational post saying welcome to this group.. and that we all feel ur pain..
the ages of the people there, ranged from 50+ to my age (i'm sure i'm the youngest there).. everyone there had lost parents, their children, spouses..
it really feels encouraging to noe i had people who is also experiencing the same pain as me
at first i can't think anything meaningful to blog bout.. but suddenly i read something in my other forum (again reminder, the other forum is not edmw) that i decided to just talk about..
i regularly visit a particular message board, which caters to people who have lost their loved ones.. when i first found it during the intense moment of pain, well i decided to just visit it.. since it was at the top of the list.. until now i noe i had not made the wrong choice.. my life had been severely affected by the understanding and loving people there...
the only way you can find that board is perhaps by CSI-ing, coz i dun tink i will tell where is that board..
the board is set up by a person who was a certified grief counselor for people to ask for help after having lost their loved ones.. i didn't really planned to use that board at first.. since that time i really needed quick comfort.. but still i decided to just type a simple thread stating i had just lost a girl i loved 1 week ago and need help from everyone.. i didnt really expect what help they could give.. and i'm still abit scared how the people there is like.. but within 1 hour the admin responded and replied lovingly an advice.. soon, other people offered their love and comfort to my thread..
i didn't expected a comfort out of typed replies, since ultimately, no matter what i do, the pain is still there.. however one couldn't expect that simple messages could really help that person emotionally.. when i found some progress to help grieving i would post happily what i had just discovered on that board, and everyone appreciated it..
slowly i began to lessen my frequency on that site.. coz sometimes the topics were abit generic and it became abit boring.. but suddenly just now, as i read through a thread i suddenly get reminded of the importance and dearness of that site to me..
another person just lost their loved one and asked for help
as i read through of the recalling, at first i simply read.. but suddenly i remembered i used to type a message like that too and it was extremely important, and extremely personal, and i began to feel the pain the person had just begun experiencing.. and i simply typed an invitational post saying welcome to this group.. and that we all feel ur pain..
the ages of the people there, ranged from 50+ to my age (i'm sure i'm the youngest there).. everyone there had lost parents, their children, spouses..
it really feels encouraging to noe i had people who is also experiencing the same pain as me
posted by k0sm0s at 9:05 AM
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